How to Afford Time Off with Your Baby - The book is launched
by Beckyspaghetti @ 2009-08-27 – 08:37:25
Just wanted to let you know that my book How to Afford Time Off with Your Baby - 101 ways to ease the financial strain by Becky Goddard-Hill has now been released and is for sale on Amazon. I am so excited I really believe this book well have a financially helpful tip for everyone. It considers everything from Christenings to Christamas on a budget and from pregnancy to preschoolers and all the financial considertions these bring.
The book is for every parent whether they have 6 weeks, 6 months, or 6 years off work almost all will have to make financial adjustments. My book is packed with simple, easy to achieve budgeting ideas. I truly hope it helps you worry less so you can enjoy your baby nore.
My background.
Prior to taking 5 years off work on a very low budget with my own children I worked as a social work trainer in child development. I also worked as a Humanistic psychotherapist. I passsionately believe in supportive communites and sharing what we have and what we know. I have 2 amazing children who I was desperate to spend time with and we have learnt to reduce, reuse, recycle and be an active part of our community as a result.
How to Afford Time Off with Your Baby is published by Vermilion and available from Amazon right now for just £5.99 Check out our website at www.babybudgeting.co.uk
Thursday, 27 August 2009
Tuesday, 14 July 2009
Baby playdates on a budget: Five top tips
Simple ideas are often those that give life ease and joy. For you and your small child these are everyday ideas to make part of your day to day (friends optional.)
1. Swimming is cheap and generally adored. Good for you full of giggles and lots of lovely bonding. Check out at your local leisure centre when their parent and toddler sessions are and pop along. Take your own lunch for after there is often somewhere to feed your baby. Swimming courses for babies can be costly and problematic; colds, injections, appointments and Grandma visiting can all get in the way and you can miss more than you make. Ad hoc pay as you go reduces wasted expense.
2. Parks – fabulously free and fantastic fun I have spent many hours on the park. To ring in the changes my little girl has pushed her dollies and her brother’s cars down the slides and swung her teddies in the swing. We have hit the park at 8 in the morning and taken breakfast, we have had a 10-baby strong teddy bears picnic there. We celebrated Earth day with tree rubbings and a book swap and lots of other families. Find all your local fab parks and make the very most of them.
3. A walk somewhere beautiful…. a great chance for a toddle, or push ride, fresh air, sight seeing, duck feeding, perhaps chatting things over with friends and getting some exercise. Scout out any lovely local walks and make them part of your play date routine. Taking a little picnic blanket, a flask, snacks and a ball make it all the more fun! Waiting for the sun is a complete waste of time grab your rainmac and some wellies and embrace the elements.
4. Open up you r home, stick on the kettle and don’t be proud, babies are just happy to play with other baby toys. If you have a play date over a lunchtime ask your friends if they want to bring their packed lunch to have at yours this saves anyone rushing away at lunchtime but saves lots of work and cash out for you. My bath is held up by parcel tape and I still have people round. You don’t need to be proud or worry few people care as much as you do about the state of you house. If its good enough for your baby its good enough for anyone.
5. Lastly parent and toddler groups may seem scary but be BRAVE and head on in. You will soon settle in and be an old timer. For 50p- £1 you get juice, biscuits, craft, a story, singing, new friends for baby and for you, different toys to play with, a change of scenery and a regular rainy day activity. The best way to make friends is offer to help hand out drinks or stay at the end to clear up. Put on a big smile tell people their child is cute and ask how old they are (the chid I mean!) you will soon be deep in conversation and may make some fab new friends.
1. Swimming is cheap and generally adored. Good for you full of giggles and lots of lovely bonding. Check out at your local leisure centre when their parent and toddler sessions are and pop along. Take your own lunch for after there is often somewhere to feed your baby. Swimming courses for babies can be costly and problematic; colds, injections, appointments and Grandma visiting can all get in the way and you can miss more than you make. Ad hoc pay as you go reduces wasted expense.
2. Parks – fabulously free and fantastic fun I have spent many hours on the park. To ring in the changes my little girl has pushed her dollies and her brother’s cars down the slides and swung her teddies in the swing. We have hit the park at 8 in the morning and taken breakfast, we have had a 10-baby strong teddy bears picnic there. We celebrated Earth day with tree rubbings and a book swap and lots of other families. Find all your local fab parks and make the very most of them.
3. A walk somewhere beautiful…. a great chance for a toddle, or push ride, fresh air, sight seeing, duck feeding, perhaps chatting things over with friends and getting some exercise. Scout out any lovely local walks and make them part of your play date routine. Taking a little picnic blanket, a flask, snacks and a ball make it all the more fun! Waiting for the sun is a complete waste of time grab your rainmac and some wellies and embrace the elements.
4. Open up you r home, stick on the kettle and don’t be proud, babies are just happy to play with other baby toys. If you have a play date over a lunchtime ask your friends if they want to bring their packed lunch to have at yours this saves anyone rushing away at lunchtime but saves lots of work and cash out for you. My bath is held up by parcel tape and I still have people round. You don’t need to be proud or worry few people care as much as you do about the state of you house. If its good enough for your baby its good enough for anyone.
5. Lastly parent and toddler groups may seem scary but be BRAVE and head on in. You will soon settle in and be an old timer. For 50p- £1 you get juice, biscuits, craft, a story, singing, new friends for baby and for you, different toys to play with, a change of scenery and a regular rainy day activity. The best way to make friends is offer to help hand out drinks or stay at the end to clear up. Put on a big smile tell people their child is cute and ask how old they are (the chid I mean!) you will soon be deep in conversation and may make some fab new friends.
Monday, 22 June 2009
Lowdham Book Festival - How to Afford Time Off with Your Baby
My house is full of panic, chaos and disarray (no, my inlaws aren't coming to stay) I am simply about to attend and deliver a talk at my first ever book festival (June 27th, Lowdham, Notts.)How to Afford Time Off with your Baby the book that is the inspriration for this blog is soon to be released (Vermilion, September 3rd).
It is my first book and my first book festival so it is all very exciting. I am on at 10 a.m in the miscellaney tent If anyone wants to come along it is a free event. I will be talking about the books beginnings in my own experiences, statistics and research around being at home with our babies and of course loads to do with saving, earning and not needing so much money when we have young children. I will also talk about the themes that emerge form baby budgeting in regard to the environment, community and creativity. The process of getting my first book published has been funny, frustrating and challenging and I will be sharing a bit of that too!
http://www.lowdhambookfestival.co.uk/
I would love to see you there.
The book is avaiable for pre-order on Amazon now.
It is my first book and my first book festival so it is all very exciting. I am on at 10 a.m in the miscellaney tent If anyone wants to come along it is a free event. I will be talking about the books beginnings in my own experiences, statistics and research around being at home with our babies and of course loads to do with saving, earning and not needing so much money when we have young children. I will also talk about the themes that emerge form baby budgeting in regard to the environment, community and creativity. The process of getting my first book published has been funny, frustrating and challenging and I will be sharing a bit of that too!
http://www.lowdhambookfestival.co.uk/
I would love to see you there.
The book is avaiable for pre-order on Amazon now.
Sunday, 31 May 2009
Wonderful weekends on a budget
Wonderful weekends on a budget
We have just had a very lovely weekend doing some fab things whislt spending very little and I just wanted to share some of it with you.
On saturday i got up early (as always with my 5 oclock riser!) and headed out to buy some milk and pre packed croissants (still a real weekend treat but almost 2/3 chepaer than 4 just baked ones) and avoidugn buying a £1.50 paper and deciding I could catch yp with the radio or tv instead.
We spent the morining at my friends house. I got my free weigh in and advice from my slim and motivating friend Keeley (saves me £20 a month on a slimming club) whilst my kids ate their rice krispies and had a wondefully enegetic bounce on our friends bouncy castle.
Later we took a pack up and went to the park where we had a big play and a game of football (my workout for the day and no gym fees!)
Spent the afternnon relaxing in the sun whilst the kids played in the paddling pool. make your own pixzza for tea (cheap as chips) and lots of books, bath and cuddles to end the day.
Sunday we went for a morning of reading, dressing up and a little Winnie the Pooh dvd before heading off for a birthday party. The presents we bought for the 2 kids totalled £5 in all and were fab (Asda pom poms and a paint your own dinosaur kit) home made cards looked great too. My kids got a great run around and a lovely lunch too. Spent the afternoon with friends over to play and helping J plant out our own veg. Kids shattererd so drawing, cuddles and stories ended a lovely day.
We had s truly lovely weekend. Sunshine, exercise, parties, parks, picnics and playing.
Weekend cost about £6.50! (Excluding regular food) car only used once to go to party! Both kids v happy
We have just had a very lovely weekend doing some fab things whislt spending very little and I just wanted to share some of it with you.
On saturday i got up early (as always with my 5 oclock riser!) and headed out to buy some milk and pre packed croissants (still a real weekend treat but almost 2/3 chepaer than 4 just baked ones) and avoidugn buying a £1.50 paper and deciding I could catch yp with the radio or tv instead.
We spent the morining at my friends house. I got my free weigh in and advice from my slim and motivating friend Keeley (saves me £20 a month on a slimming club) whilst my kids ate their rice krispies and had a wondefully enegetic bounce on our friends bouncy castle.
Later we took a pack up and went to the park where we had a big play and a game of football (my workout for the day and no gym fees!)
Spent the afternnon relaxing in the sun whilst the kids played in the paddling pool. make your own pixzza for tea (cheap as chips) and lots of books, bath and cuddles to end the day.
Sunday we went for a morning of reading, dressing up and a little Winnie the Pooh dvd before heading off for a birthday party. The presents we bought for the 2 kids totalled £5 in all and were fab (Asda pom poms and a paint your own dinosaur kit) home made cards looked great too. My kids got a great run around and a lovely lunch too. Spent the afternoon with friends over to play and helping J plant out our own veg. Kids shattererd so drawing, cuddles and stories ended a lovely day.
We had s truly lovely weekend. Sunshine, exercise, parties, parks, picnics and playing.
Weekend cost about £6.50! (Excluding regular food) car only used once to go to party! Both kids v happy
Tuesday, 28 April 2009
Packed lunches
Well my 4 year old is back to school tomorrow and both he and his baby sister will be having packed lunch (she's off to visit grandma in hospital and it is FAR cheaper to take your own) Pack ups only take minutes but really do save pounds. Here are some pack up tips for savvy sandwich savers.
1. Invest in some different sized lidded plastic containers to save the constant expense of sandwich bags and cling film. It's a good investment.
2. Get a nice sandwich box but if you can get away with it avoid themes, Bob the Builder sandwich boxes may be in vogue with your toddler but will cost a lot more than a non themed box and a few months down the line Bob may well have been replaced by Roary and the nagging may begin again.
3. Have a non themed drinks bottle (see above) and make sure it fits in the box.This saves buying pre packed drinks is a cheaper and greener option. Tap water is, after all, totally free!
4. Chopped veg is healthy, cheap and colourful. 1 carrot can go a long way and it tastes sweet! Peppers are also a good option or maybe some cucumber, tomatoes, celery etc. If you pack it in they will often give it a try.
5. Fruit is really important too. Apples kept in the fridge tend to last an age and are hard to squish. Bananas may be a favourite - just remember not to store them with other fruit or let them get to warm and over ripen. Oranges aren't easy to eat in transit but easy peel satsumas may be an option and also last a while.
6. If sanwiches get boring try pitta bread toasted, packed up with cheese or hommus and cut into little pieces. Totrilla wraps filled and chopped into bite size pieces are another cheap way to ring the changes.
7.You could also consider items you may already have in: : chunks of cheese and breadsticks, cold leftover pizza slices, a boiled egg, hot cross bun buttered and chopped, malt loaf, vegetable rice, pasta salad, etc. Children eat differently on the go particularly when they have no back up options!
8. Crisps are generally empty calories and you may want to miss these out, like wise chocoalte bars - if you decide to go down this route or even for an occasional treat look out for special offers and sotre them out of your every day reach or they will be gobbled up and gone in in no time!
9. A little box of raisins nevr spoils and give a sweet treat and an energy burst for little cost. I alsowsy include these.
10. To liven up a lunch box you could always pop in a forgotten toy or a photo of the cat or daddy! Treats don't have to be edible.
Have a nice lunch - and don't forget your own
1. Invest in some different sized lidded plastic containers to save the constant expense of sandwich bags and cling film. It's a good investment.
2. Get a nice sandwich box but if you can get away with it avoid themes, Bob the Builder sandwich boxes may be in vogue with your toddler but will cost a lot more than a non themed box and a few months down the line Bob may well have been replaced by Roary and the nagging may begin again.
3. Have a non themed drinks bottle (see above) and make sure it fits in the box.This saves buying pre packed drinks is a cheaper and greener option. Tap water is, after all, totally free!
4. Chopped veg is healthy, cheap and colourful. 1 carrot can go a long way and it tastes sweet! Peppers are also a good option or maybe some cucumber, tomatoes, celery etc. If you pack it in they will often give it a try.
5. Fruit is really important too. Apples kept in the fridge tend to last an age and are hard to squish. Bananas may be a favourite - just remember not to store them with other fruit or let them get to warm and over ripen. Oranges aren't easy to eat in transit but easy peel satsumas may be an option and also last a while.
6. If sanwiches get boring try pitta bread toasted, packed up with cheese or hommus and cut into little pieces. Totrilla wraps filled and chopped into bite size pieces are another cheap way to ring the changes.
7.You could also consider items you may already have in: : chunks of cheese and breadsticks, cold leftover pizza slices, a boiled egg, hot cross bun buttered and chopped, malt loaf, vegetable rice, pasta salad, etc. Children eat differently on the go particularly when they have no back up options!
8. Crisps are generally empty calories and you may want to miss these out, like wise chocoalte bars - if you decide to go down this route or even for an occasional treat look out for special offers and sotre them out of your every day reach or they will be gobbled up and gone in in no time!
9. A little box of raisins nevr spoils and give a sweet treat and an energy burst for little cost. I alsowsy include these.
10. To liven up a lunch box you could always pop in a forgotten toy or a photo of the cat or daddy! Treats don't have to be edible.
Have a nice lunch - and don't forget your own
Sunday, 26 April 2009
baby clothes on a budget
Well, it is most definately summer time and new clothes are the order of the day. My daughter is 1 1/2 and totally gorgeous and I like her to look her very best but money is tight. It is time to be resourceful! Here are my 10 top tips for dressing your baby on a budget.
1) Mix and match what they have - we do it for ourselves,...mixing up outfits can give them a great new lease of life, you could try little leggings under a dress, a white long sleeved body could go under a t-shirt on a cooler day, a blouse could be worn open over a vest top....endless possibilities!
2) Adapt what you have: jeans could be cut to make shorts, an old dress could become a little tunic top. new buttons may revive a cardi or a stained t-shirt could even be tie dyed!
3) Buy for longevity - I bought a gorgeous hot pink cashmere Monsoon poncho for £1.50 off ebay. It has lasted from 3 months to now and is still going strong. Pinafores with large arm holes can become minis later, elastic waist skirts can last an age. Think long life and then you can affoord to buy a few key pieces.
4) Hand me downs - what a life saver, I would recommend you always say YES and smile. Even if you think these may not be to your taste you are sure to find a few things in a hand me down bag. Even if you just find a few play clothes (or as I call them 'going to grandmas to get dirty and eat ice cream clothes) these are a brilliant additiont ot your childs wardrobe and saves you wrecking the good stuff.
5) Sell to buy - by selling what you are done with you can free up cash for you next clothes shop. Ebay, NCT sales, netmums or even a local second hand baby clothes shop are all options for selling. I use ebay and sometimes sell bundles. I wouldn't recommend you horde for a next baby as clothes never look the same next time round and seasons, gender, sizes and weather never are never all exactly the same.
6) Check out ebay by searching for exactly what you want. Nct sales are also a top place to buy lovely v cheap seconds check out www.nct.org.uk/in-your-area/nearly-new-sales. Car boots can also be great,often its just a family like you trying to make money for the next load of baby stuff. For a car boot near you check out www.carbootjunction.com.
7) Accesorize - a little hair clip or waistcoat can transform an outfit for a party , a bit of shoe polish and some frilly socks can work wonders too. You don't have to buy a brand new outfit ..it can all be in the detal so be a savvy shppper.
8) Check out charity shop in posh areas...makes sense they will alwys have more expesnive and probably better quality seconds.
9)A big waterproof bib that your baby is happy to wear is worth its weight in gold and I woudl recommend if they are eating spaghetti strip them down to their nappy. Its a good idea to protect what you have!
10) A baby probably doesn't care what they look like so try and not care much either. Life is for eating, playing and dribbling when you are little without being too concerned. I was once told that a smile is the prettiest outfit ever and so a relaxed mum and dad tend to make the prettiest of children.
1) Mix and match what they have - we do it for ourselves,...mixing up outfits can give them a great new lease of life, you could try little leggings under a dress, a white long sleeved body could go under a t-shirt on a cooler day, a blouse could be worn open over a vest top....endless possibilities!
2) Adapt what you have: jeans could be cut to make shorts, an old dress could become a little tunic top. new buttons may revive a cardi or a stained t-shirt could even be tie dyed!
3) Buy for longevity - I bought a gorgeous hot pink cashmere Monsoon poncho for £1.50 off ebay. It has lasted from 3 months to now and is still going strong. Pinafores with large arm holes can become minis later, elastic waist skirts can last an age. Think long life and then you can affoord to buy a few key pieces.
4) Hand me downs - what a life saver, I would recommend you always say YES and smile. Even if you think these may not be to your taste you are sure to find a few things in a hand me down bag. Even if you just find a few play clothes (or as I call them 'going to grandmas to get dirty and eat ice cream clothes) these are a brilliant additiont ot your childs wardrobe and saves you wrecking the good stuff.
5) Sell to buy - by selling what you are done with you can free up cash for you next clothes shop. Ebay, NCT sales, netmums or even a local second hand baby clothes shop are all options for selling. I use ebay and sometimes sell bundles. I wouldn't recommend you horde for a next baby as clothes never look the same next time round and seasons, gender, sizes and weather never are never all exactly the same.
6) Check out ebay by searching for exactly what you want. Nct sales are also a top place to buy lovely v cheap seconds check out www.nct.org.uk/in-your-area/nearly-new-sales. Car boots can also be great,often its just a family like you trying to make money for the next load of baby stuff. For a car boot near you check out www.carbootjunction.com.
7) Accesorize - a little hair clip or waistcoat can transform an outfit for a party , a bit of shoe polish and some frilly socks can work wonders too. You don't have to buy a brand new outfit ..it can all be in the detal so be a savvy shppper.
8) Check out charity shop in posh areas...makes sense they will alwys have more expesnive and probably better quality seconds.
9)A big waterproof bib that your baby is happy to wear is worth its weight in gold and I woudl recommend if they are eating spaghetti strip them down to their nappy. Its a good idea to protect what you have!
10) A baby probably doesn't care what they look like so try and not care much either. Life is for eating, playing and dribbling when you are little without being too concerned. I was once told that a smile is the prettiest outfit ever and so a relaxed mum and dad tend to make the prettiest of children.
Sunday, 19 April 2009
Back to School
Well my 4 year old is back to school tomorrow and both he and his baby sister will be having packed lunch (she's off to visit grandma in hospital and it is FAR cheaper to take your own) Pack ups only take minutes but really do save pounds. Here are some pack up tips for savvy sandwich savers.
1. Invest in some different sized lidded plastic containers to save the constant expense of sandwich bags and cling film. It's a good investment.
2. Get a nice sandwich box but if you can get away with it avoid themes, Bob the Builder sandwich boxes may be in vogue with your toddler but will cost a lot more than a non themed box and a few months down the line Bob may well have been replaced by Roary and the nagging may begin again.
3. Have a non themed drinks bottle (see above) and make sure it fits in the box.This saves buying pre packed drinks is a cheaper and greener option. Tap water is, after all, totally free!
4. Chopped veg is healthy, cheap and colourful. 1 carrot can go a long way and it tastes sweet! Peppers are also a good option or maybe some cucumber, tomatoes, celery etc. If you pack it in they will often give it a try.
5. Fruit is really important too. Apples kept in the fridge tend to last an age and are hard to squish. Bananas may be a favourite - just remember not to store them with other fruit or let them get to warm and over ripen. Oranges aren't easy to eat in transit but easy peel satsumas may be an option and also last a while.
6. If sanwiches get boring try pitta bread toasted, packed up with cheese or hommus and cut into little pieces. Totrilla wraps filled and chopped into bite size pieces are another cheap way to ring the changes.
7.You could also consider items you may already have in: : chunks of cheese and breadsticks, cold leftover pizza slices, a boiled egg, hot cross bun buttered and chopped, malt loaf, vegetable rice, pasta salad, etc. Children eat differently on the go particularly when they have no back up options!
8. Crisps are generally empty calories and you may want to miss these out, like wise chocoalte bars - if you decide to go down this route or even for an occasional treat look out for special offers and sotre them out of your every day reach or they will be gobbled up and gone in in no time!
9. A little box of raisins nevr spoils and give a sweet treat and an energy burst for little cost. I alsowsy include these.
10. To liven up a lunch box you could always pop in a forgotten toy or a photo of the cat or daddy! Treats don't have to be edible.
Have a nice lunch - and don't forget your own :)
1. Invest in some different sized lidded plastic containers to save the constant expense of sandwich bags and cling film. It's a good investment.
2. Get a nice sandwich box but if you can get away with it avoid themes, Bob the Builder sandwich boxes may be in vogue with your toddler but will cost a lot more than a non themed box and a few months down the line Bob may well have been replaced by Roary and the nagging may begin again.
3. Have a non themed drinks bottle (see above) and make sure it fits in the box.This saves buying pre packed drinks is a cheaper and greener option. Tap water is, after all, totally free!
4. Chopped veg is healthy, cheap and colourful. 1 carrot can go a long way and it tastes sweet! Peppers are also a good option or maybe some cucumber, tomatoes, celery etc. If you pack it in they will often give it a try.
5. Fruit is really important too. Apples kept in the fridge tend to last an age and are hard to squish. Bananas may be a favourite - just remember not to store them with other fruit or let them get to warm and over ripen. Oranges aren't easy to eat in transit but easy peel satsumas may be an option and also last a while.
6. If sanwiches get boring try pitta bread toasted, packed up with cheese or hommus and cut into little pieces. Totrilla wraps filled and chopped into bite size pieces are another cheap way to ring the changes.
7.You could also consider items you may already have in: : chunks of cheese and breadsticks, cold leftover pizza slices, a boiled egg, hot cross bun buttered and chopped, malt loaf, vegetable rice, pasta salad, etc. Children eat differently on the go particularly when they have no back up options!
8. Crisps are generally empty calories and you may want to miss these out, like wise chocoalte bars - if you decide to go down this route or even for an occasional treat look out for special offers and sotre them out of your every day reach or they will be gobbled up and gone in in no time!
9. A little box of raisins nevr spoils and give a sweet treat and an energy burst for little cost. I alsowsy include these.
10. To liven up a lunch box you could always pop in a forgotten toy or a photo of the cat or daddy! Treats don't have to be edible.
Have a nice lunch - and don't forget your own :)
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